What are the issues surrounding sexuality?
What really matters to living a well-rounded life?
Who and what are we becoming?
Through various stages in my long life, I've identified as straight, bi-sexual, lesbian, celibate and now label-less as labels feel incomplete and superficial to who I am. I've ALWAYS been the same person through these many stages and phases, although choosing different playmates for my mirrors and company.
I identify as Cedar. What matters to me is that I become more whole in my self and expand my presence and ability to live and love with as much authenticity and consciousness that I can humanly muster.
It's not just my sexuality where I've dismantled all the labels. I've also progressed to a more well-rounded human being by decoupling from identifying as woman, androgyne, religious, spiritual, political, and Australian. I am merely 'human' or 'homo sapien' and earthling. (Although having said that, there's a much more evolved story there too!)
One of my readers on Facebook made an even better suggestion: "Thank you for sharing. I think when we can get past the HUMAN covering/label and identify with our SOUL, we no longer need labels."
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Penny Kelly and Daphnee have an enlightening conversation in 'Genders, Sexuality and Androgyny, Frequencies, Evolved Races'.
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