Losing Friends and Finding Belonging

The fabulous phenomena of immediate synchronicity. - I just put the finishing touches on a segment of my book regarding how dynamics in friendships can change after the pain of losing a loved one.  I wrote from experience as I lost - or rather, let go with love - many friends after the death of my best friend in 2018. 

It begins:  Navigating Friendship Dynamics After a Profound Loss
What are effective ways to offer support for a friend after the death of a close loved one?

When a friend experiences the profound loss of a loved one, it's important to know that their whole world can be turned upside down. As they cope with the turbulent journey of grief, it's essential to understand that their needs and outlook on life can change considerably.

Then I popped onto YouTube and the following sweet message appeared:

"I have had trouble at times finding friendships that are built on respect and kindness, sometimes I have gotten caught up with relationships that are built on other things that don’t serve me as well. In my case, it feels as if the people we surround ourselves with have a big impact on our mindset, everything from the words we use to the way we think. Negative friendships are something I’ve had to learn to be careful with, because they can hinder my personal growth, especially when I feel like I’m being put down or constantly criticised. Anyway, this autumn I’ve been reflecting on the fact that I now share my heart and life with people who choose kindness and compassion, and who inspire me to be better. I’m so grateful to have found them! Hope you can share your experiences below! I hope we can try to not be simply negative towards others, but instead consider what we can change in ourselves, our lifestyles and mindsets to serve ourselves better and thrive."